Let’s be honest here. If you’re in IB, you know all too well
what stress is. Depending how lucky you are, each person has their own way of
handling stress. Some handle them steadily and calmly, like Barney from How I
met Your Mother tv series over here:
Or, if you’re the opposite, every time you think about your
IB life, deep down in your heart you picture yourself looking like this guy
over here:
Whichever
way you think you are in handling stress, just remember, ‘stressed’ is
‘desserts’ spelled backwards. If you are able to control them and channel them positively,
something good will come out of it. You will find yourself more productive and
more focused on your work while still having fun at the same time.
Without further ado, here are some of my
tips to relieve or to control your stress level in the IB:
1. Laugh
One
laugh can change your stress level and even your mood in a heartbeat.
Scientists have proven that when you laugh, you’ll send signals to the brain
that triggers it to think about good thoughts. The same thing happens when you
smile.
You
can do this by having a couple minutes seeing funny videos on the internet,
throwing jokes with your friends, or even simply by thinking happy or silly
thoughts that will crack you a smile. So, laugh a lot! It’s the cheapest way to
relieve your stress. In fact, it’s free!
2. Listen to music
There is a reason why pregnant mothers
listen to music when they are pregnant. Music soothes you, and it helps the
neurons in your brain to connect to each other so that you can be more focused
and sharp. Of course, this only applies to calming music such as classical or
ballads.
However, if you want something you can
dance to so you can loosen up and have some fun, any kind of music will do,
really. You can even sing to it really loudly so you just get all your stress
out there. After that, you will surely be much more relieved.
3. Have a friend
“A
friend is someone who is always there for you, no matter what”, or so I’ve
heard plenty of times. Although
melancholic, I would say that the quote is true. Find someone that you can
really connect with and that understands you. That way, you can let out all
your stress to them and feel understood. A true friend will always be willing
to listen to you, but you must also do the same.
Listen
to them about their problems as well. Therefore, you can learn from each other’s
experiences and have the support you’ll need to deal with all the problems in
your IB life. Sometimes, reaching out to them is just a text message away.
4. Find a hobby
A
hobby gives you a time-off. As a matter of fact, it can be your escape from the
IB life. It could be dancing, singing, playing sports, or anything that you
love so much that you feel like you can lose yourself while doing the activity.
That way, you’ll forget all the stress you have in the IB for a moment and come
back to it with a fresher find.
I
know for a fact that a good friend of mine seems to love playing basketball so
much, and by so much I mean so so very
much, that he can get away with pretty much any stress he is going through
just by playing for a couple of hours. Cool, isn’t it? So find your hobby guys,
it’ll work just like a quick vacation from the IB.
5. Exercise
When
you exercise, your brain is actually releasing a hormone called the serotonin,
which is the same hormone you can find on stimulants. The cool thing about this
hormone is that it makes you happier in an instant. That’s a fact. Trust me. I’m
taking Chemistry and am currently studying medicines and drugs (oh life). It
doesn’t need to take too long, you know. A half an hour jog or even a
ten-minute workout session from a Youtube video will suffice.
6. Channel your stress positively: Focus on what you can control
A lot of times, we stress on things we
cannot do anything about anymore. This actually happened to me a lot. I usually
got upset for a really long period of time after I felt like I did terribly in
one of my exams. Even though I could no longer control what happened to my
grade in that specific test, I kept on worrying about it again and again until
I was really stressed out the whole examination week, which affected my
performance in my other subjects. (Yes, the subject I did terribly in was Math
HL).
So, after that, I just had enough with
worrying. I learn to focus on things that I can actually control, which are the
things that await me in the future. This includes my future examinations and
essays issued by the IB. As it turns out, a lot of weight has been lifted from
me since then. I know it is hard to let go, but you just have to do it if you
want to make room for a better future.
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Speaking of exams…………….
Stressing
is good to give you the urge to fight, but over-stressing is really bad for you
as it decreases your focus and confidence in going through the IB. So to
relieve your stress, just laugh, listen to your favorite songs, talk to a
friend, find a hobby, exercise, and only focus on what you can control.
Yup, Good luck <3
-L